How I Finally Got Married at age of 37yrs after Going Through the Heartbreak of 2 CANCELLED WEDDINGS
I Never Believed I could ever marry such a God sent Handsome Man..
My name is Juliet. I am 37 years old. I'm married.
And I work as a Secretary in Abuja.
It all Started!... after my NYSC in the year 2006.
I studied Business Administration at the University and went for service
immediately, finished serving at the age of 25yrs. I traveled back to Uyo, Akwa
Ibom which is my home state.
I got a teaching job in one of
the private schools in our area, go to work from our family house where I lived
with my parents and other siblings.
As a young beautiful lady I had lots
of men flocking around me though I don’t have anything serious with any
particular one of them as none of them were serious.
All that most of them want is just for me to follow them go
clubbing, partying, accompany them to hotels and possibly sleep with them at
will.
But deep down in me I know that this is not what I want in life
and this is not the kind of life I would want to live forever. I needed to have
serious relationship which will lead to a better future.
And this made me to
turn down most advances from men who I know are not serious about their
intentions while I was also praying for God to bless me with a good life
partner but this routine continued till I was 27 and I was becoming
uncomfortable with my single status.
Not, that I don’t get proposals from men I like....
I got lots of them... but at the beginning, they will be serious
but once it gets to the stage of him coming for introduction they will just
back off and give me one flimsy reason or the other for their action and some
of them as I later found out are already married men.
After
3 years in Uyo,
I relocated
to Abuja as it seems that there is a stigma attached to me within the locality
which I needed to escape from. And this made me to move to Abuja in the
year 2009 at the age of 28yrs where I got a Job to work as a Front Desk
Secretary to a telecom company.
Before
I left Uyo, I already had 8 suitors who actually came to make an inquiry for
introduction but never returned and this made me to feel unease.
I made every good effort to get a man I will call my own not that
I am desperate but I was not happy with the rejections I got halfway…
Here in Abuja, I did everything humanly possible to ensure I get a
good partner but all seems to no avail. I lived a good life, I visited men of
God for prayers as I felt my case is not ordinary, attended social gatherings,
was polite to clients at my workplace, joined religious groups in my church,
in fact, I did all I could apart from visiting traditionalists.
But I will end up being rejected 95% of the time in my
relationships.
The tiny few that accepted me
initially will end up placing me as a side chick that is only good to grace
their bed and cater for their unending desires, always calling me to visit them
at home without showing strong affection to cement our relationship.
Suddenly in 2010 something different happened….
It seemed the jinx was broken when I met
Stanley. He is such a charming, industrious young man who understands what
relationship and love is all about. He represented everything I needed in a
man, from his Physique to his Charisma, He understands even my body movement.
With Him, I felt Heaven have
answered my prayer.
One fateful Monday afternoon in
June, 2010,
I was at work when Stanley
called and asked that I stop by his house when I close at work for an important
message which he need to deliver to me. And I agreed because I know him to
be an honest person.
On getting to his apartment after work, it seems as if nobody was
home, the front door was open with no one in sight, as I approach his bedroom, the
whole place was all lit with candles and rose flower petals on the floor
leading to the room. As I enter the room, he emerged from behind with few
friends and kneel down to propose to me.
Instantly, I felt as if butterflies are swinging in my heart, the
feeling was so deep that tears started flowing freely from my eyes. But they
were tears of Joy, and I stretched my fingers to accept the ring and his
proposal.
Our Love grew stronger every day and we started making arrangement
for our wedding which we fixed to hold in December 2010. My happiness was
mainly derived from the fact that this is the first man that really sticked
with me after the introduction and other traditional rites we had at the
village.
But When I thought that, I’m already in Heaven…
the unthinkable happened in December same year, 2 weeks to our
wedding date. Stanley started distancing himself from me all of a
sudden, he doesn’t call or check on me and even when I visit, he will just be avoiding
me as if there is something in me that scares him.
And I kept
asking him what the problem is, after almost one week of blanking me out he
called me to ask me whether I have been married before? I told him no that I
have never been married but what he said scared me to the marrows.
He said that for some time now, a strange
looking man always attack him in the dream telling him to leave his wife alone,
and he said that last night the same man appeared in his dream and beat him
black and blue and told him to leave “his wife” alone.
Stanley knew he was not in any
other relationship with any other lady except me. So to him, the message was
very clear….
He said that the beating was so
intense that when he woke up that morning, it was as if grinded pepper was
poured all over his body and he was too weak to even get up…
And He Told Me That for the fact that it’s same
man that he had been encountering repeatedly and he had been referring to me as
his supposed wife, He will CALL OFF THE WEDDING immediately.
Honestly
when he said this to me, I momentarily died gradually inside.
If you look for me in the spirit world that day, you will find me
because I was not feeling as if I’m still alive anymore. My greatest joy had been
shattered barely a week to my wedding.
From that day, it become clear to me that something is wrong
because even in my own dreams, I had also been having intercourse with a
strange man but I never thought that it may be the reason my relationships
never ended in marriage until Stanley narrated this to me.
And my thought was…
Could it be that unknown to me, a spirit husband had been
attacking the men who proposed to me…
And scared them off
The trauma was too deep for me to cope with.
The sad feeling haunted me for the next 3 years before I was
able to overcome it. And this was made possible when I fell in love with Frank
who is a co-worker in our office.
By then I’m already 32yrs in 2013 and I was beginning to lose hope
in getting married.
I was in a relationship with Frank but I was not really feeling
electric about it because I’m always having the feeling that it will not work
out just like others.
Frank is a very responsible man and in all ramifications he want
our relationship to work out and within 4 months of dating him, he was already
talking me into going to see my family in Uyo. By the time we are 9
months into the relationship, we have already gone to visit my parents, and we
have done both the first and second introduction remaining the Traditional
Wedding.
Our traditional wedding was going to be in my hometown, most
preparations had been made, both the Caterer and the Decorators had been partly
paid, the MC already booked. Some of the invitations have already been
shared to his family and my family for onward distribution.
And...
5 days to the Traditional Wedding Frank called me and told
me that He doesn’t feel like going ahead with the preparations, that he want to
call it off, I asked him for the reason but he -only told me that it is not
what he can explain to me on phone and he dropped the call.
I was in a shopping mall when he called me…
Right there in the mall, I
broke down in tears and the lady I came to buy from tried to console me without
knowing the cause of my tears, I could not hold back the tears and the shame of
this second disgrace.
Even when I later went home, I
cried from the afternoon till late at night. I didn’t eat for 2days after the event.
Even when I started eating everything I ate seems tasteless to me. And life
seems meaningless to me. This second agony was too heavy for me to handle.
At a stage, it was so bad that I wanted to die because the pain of
repeatedly watching my mates, friends, and colleagues getting married, bearing
children while men keep dumping me at the last minute was just too painful for
me to bear.
That year, I decided never to date again until I am able to find the solution to what is happening to me.
Frank later got another job and moved on and I was just living
life then as if nothing matters to me again.
The discomfort—the embarrassment, the tears, the excruciating
trauma, took a long time for me to find a new normal life.
But by the time I overcame all these, men are no longer
approaching me like before. It was as if men have deserted me for good.
For almost 5 years from 2013 to 2017, I lived without any man
approaching me for a serious relationship. Then it was as if I am no longer
attractive for a man to approach. And I gave up seeking a partner.
But then something spectacular happened…
One fateful afternoon at work,
I was browsing through Facebook when I came across an eBook named “HOW TO ATTRACT THE PERFECT HUSBAND” in “Single To Married” Page and I decided to browse through the
page. At first, I was not really interested in the eBook but most testimonies I
read on the page aroused my curiosity to read more about it. The eBook sells for
N3,500 then which I know I can easily afford but I was not really interested
because I felt no man can love me again.
But one of the bonus eBooks
named “Single To Married Prayer Warfare Program”, caught my attention.
And to be sure that this is not one of those internet scams, I
copied the phone number in the page and called the author of the book (Mr.
Emeka) on WhatsApp Video call and fortunately for me he was in his office and
he showed me the hard copies, it happened that he is a
Relationship & Marriage Counsellor and I summarily explained my situation
to him.
But… there is one thing he said
that day that really caught my attention.
He told me that “visiting men of God is Good but that there is no
one on earth that can deliver me better than when I am ready to deliver myself.
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Having cleared my skepticism, I went further to
pay N3,500 for the eBooks in December, 2017 and in about
5minutes I received 3 different eBooks which are in PDF Document format in my
WhatsApp and I downloaded all immediately and started with the first one which
is “How To Attract The Perfect Husband” After reading
the first two e-books I have to specially prepare for the 7 days Powerful
Prayer in the 3rd eBook because it includes half-day fasting. I pour out all my
faith and heart in this prayer and by the fifth day.
I was sleeping
and dream of where I was walking down a strange path with my face covered, and
an imaginary figure that is wearing white shinning apparel came and removed
the veil that is covering my face and immediately this happened, I woke up only
to see that this is a dream and from that day till date, I have never witnessed
having s*x in my dream again.
In fact after
I went through the “Single To Married Prayer Warfare Program” which
was included as a bonus, It seems like I naturally forced Heaven to lift a
heavy Yoke that had been laden in my heart and broke all the evil chains
against Marriage over me.
With the new confidence I got from reading these eBooks, I applied most of the techniques I
learned from it and in less than a month after reading them, I met Henry by
applying the technique I learned on Page 25 & 28 of the 1st eBook.
Henry is an Engineer and is 2years older than me. He is well built, tall and a
dream man for me.
My situation
was so bad that when I met Henry for the first time, I virtually felt that I am
not worthy to have him as a partner because of the depth of emotional trauma I
went through after 2 cancelled weddings.
Our relationship
grew stronger as days turn into weeks and weeks turn into months.
To cut the
story short…..
Heaven turned
my story to glory when I finally got married to Henry on the 27th of January,
2018 at the age of 37 after going through 2 failed weddings. That day was the
most memorable day in my life and that of our family. At my wedding, my mother
shed tears because she thought it will never come to pass like others.
At first,
I thought these attraction techniques and methods I learnt
from the eBooks is a happenstance that worked for only me, but then, I
recommended the eBooks to Folake my colleague at work who recently turned 33yrs
with her own sad tales of heartbreaks from men.
I recommended these books to her in March, 2018 and by August,
2018 she called me to inform me that she is getting married that the eBooks I
recommended to her worked like magic. She is expecting her first child now.
Presently, there is an ongoing price promo at the website where I
bought the eBooks, And this is part of the reason I have to write this my
testimony now so that most singles can take advantage of the opportunity to
also get their testimony. The eBook costs only N3,500 now due to the ongoing
Promo in the website.
Dear Single Lady...
I will never wish even my own enemy to go through the depth of
psychological and emotional stress I suffered in the course of my
relationships. That is why I strongly recommend these eBooks to every Single
lady who is having difficulty in attracting a man of her dream.
If I can have
my own testimony at 37 after all these years, I strongly believe that God will
also, answer your prayers if you can take action and make a strong commitment both
in reading the books and carrying out the prayers.
Whoever thought that a 37years old Secretary like me could
ever get married to a man who is not only handsome and well built but one who
treats me with Love and Respect! Well, I give God the Glory and also owe it to
Mr. Emeka who is the author of the eBooks for his Counsellings and encouragement
till date.
God will surely bless him for the good works he is doing. I’ve
already gotten to the point in my life where I have lost hope altogether before
I read these special eBooks and they showed me exactly how to go out and win the
man of my dream.
And I pray that it will surely work for you too.
You can also WhatsApp Mr Emeka (The Author) to get the eBooks
sent to you on WhatsApp
...Don’t delay your breakthrough because of procrastination.
You can order your copy of the e-book NOW to start engaging the
Supernatural Powers of Heaven to bring your Marital Breakthrough by Force!
Even if you are married or engaged to be
married, SHARE this Book to your friends who are single and want to experience
their own Breakthrough this year.
I declare by the Power of God that as you get this book, read it
and practice all that is taught therein, all the chains of darkness over your
marital life will be BROKEN in Jesus name.
You will surely walk into your husband’s house and those who
laughed at you, will join you to praise the Lord!




Our God is indeed great. The Bible also said it that the weapons of our warfare are not physical....
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